Few girls, learning about pregnancy, is experiencing clean happiness without impurities of experience. Most of us, together with joy, feels anxious for themselves, baby, coming changes and, of course, the reaction of loved ones. And the way we will inform about important news can play a decisive role.
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Choose a good time. Future dad (after all, it is often the first one who should devote to the secret) should be in a good mood, free from important cases, ready to listen and perceive information. Such moments usually occur in the evening after work or at the input when you are alone. We are convinced that in the near future nothing will interfere with communication and proceed to the next part.
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The easiest, but at the same time the most difficult way is to say right. It is suitable if the pregnancy is planned, the partner loves children, you have excellent relationships. Although the news will find a husband by surprise, his reaction will be positive. For the disclosure of the secret, you can come up with beautiful phrases, for example:
"I feel the heart of our kid."
"Very soon you will become a dad (we become parents)."
"After 9 months we will be three."
"That romantic night will remember forever."
"I am pregnant with the most beautiful baby, because he has such a wonderful dad!"
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If you know a man not enough and you cannot predict his answer to the joyful news, you need to prepare the future Father. Report a delay. Please contact the drowsiness, the mood swings are uncharacteristic for you gastronomic addiction. Call the most obvious symptoms of pregnancy so that the partner itself concluded on the likelihood of an "interesting situation". Then he will be morally ready for any turn of events and the fact itself will take place as granted.
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You can hint on pregnancy you can weigh other ways. Spread the cabbage around the house, hang cute photos of newborns or ultrasound snapshots, storks and other eloquent items. Buy a t-shirt with the inscription from a row "busy tummy". Show your spouse, as if nonsense, a subscription for fitness for pregnant women. Recognition in such an allegorical form will be soft, but the point of matter will give excellent.
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Have you learned about the child on the eve of any holiday? Wonderful, let's give news as a gift! Write a beautiful note, pack it in a box with a bow and hand the husband into a memorable day. This surprise will truly decorate the holiday and will remember for life. You can also arrange a favorite small quest, the final point of which will be the same box with a stunning news.
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If the pregnancy has to be told to parents, it is important to remember that it is in any case the shock. One mother will pay from the dignity, the other, on the contrary, will scribble or will persuade "not spoil career prospects." Here you should demonstrate relatives that you are an adult personality and the fate of the child decide on their own. And if we ask the Council, then the final conclusions are all the same for you, what position would the parents be taken. To conversate, choose soft tones and suitable time. Remember: Even if the initially family did not support you, a little later, closely hurt and mutual understanding will work out. After all, not every day they will learn about the soon adding!
But the most important for the future mother to decide on its own emotions. After making sure that you are pregnant, let's get for a while and think about how happiness now has become. And then choose how and when to share the secret, because it is "those" words, it is "that" a moment can change the future.
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