How to understand what guy wants

When communicating with a promised counterpart for work, a new acquaintance, an old friend, or with his guy, with whom you are together for a long time, is not always clear what he has on his mind. Perhaps he builds at you far-reaching plans, and maybe perceives only as an object of sexual fantasies. Or, hesitating, waiting for the cherished first step from you. And it is just afraid to be rejected. In order for your conclusions to be hasty and erroneous, thereby spoiling an existing state of affairs, pay closer attention to some features of the behavior of a potential or already existing cavalier. Do not pass by the ears of his statements, look at non-verbal signals.

The fact that the French representatives, regardless of age, upbringing, character and social status, wish to clearly understand what men want from them is absolutely normal. In women, the desire to be necessary and beloved is laid by nature. And any ambiguity in a relationship, and at any of their stage, it makes them fights, makes doubt, feel uncertain. If you got a man who for any reason does not speak of his sympathy or feelings, or you have a doubt that you really need this person, try to analyze his behavior, gestures, appreciate his words and actions. Only without bias and fiction. Learn not what you would like to see and hear, but the facts - what is in reality.

If the object of your sympathy is, it also uses gestures that attract any way to his male dignity, then be sure that you like him more than like. Thus, it unconsciously sends sexual signals. They can be expressed by frequent shocking hands in pockets of trousers, touching the belt, widely arranged legs at the time of conversation with you. There are also constant unobtrusive attempts to touch you about the same. For example, helping you to convey to you, he will not just take this subject, but it will definitely touch your hand, flowing forward - put his hand on his back or waist. The look, as directed to your legs or breasts, is just a semaphor of his sexual desire. From this category unconscious attempts to relax tie, unbutton the button, please correct clothes. If in the hands of the guy who wishes you will be oblong items, for example, a pencil or telephone, it will begin to make certain manipulations with them, resembling movements in sex.

Of course, if the hints of a man on the fact that he is not averse to know you closer, too obvious, then it is hardly worth counting on a serious relationship. Rather, here it is only about fleeting passion. But if the guy does not hurry the events in terms of sex, it speaks of his respect for you and sincere sympathy not only as a sexual object. Although there are always exceptions from these rules. In the case when a man moves from conversations to more decisive actions, for example, kisses and strokers of rather intimate places, but then it does not go on, this indicates that he is not sure of you, or is afraid to be rejected. If you are not against the further development of events, tell him about it, take the initiative to your hands. The fact that you are the roads to your cavalier will tell the actions for him, it will take care of, interested in your affairs, arrange pleasant surprises, help and maintain in everything, to spend a lot of time with you.

If the young man in conversations increasingly says not "I", but "we", "our", then he, at a minimum, considers you with his second half, for him you are part of his life, and not a fleeting passion. The seriousness of the relationship will say and his desire to introduce his parents with you, friends. It will not allow yourself to offend you, ignore, flirt with other ladies and compare you with someone. He will try not only to be always aware of your affairs and problems, but also take part in their decision. The guy experiencing deep feelings for you will give you reasons for laughter and smiles, and not for tears and experiences. Such a person wants in response one - reciprocity, the same tenderness and trepacy, respect. Appreciate such relationships and do not take all its efforts as proper. Learn not only to take, but also to give emotions, feelings, attention. And if your young man increasingly began to look at neighboring children, and evenings prefers not to spend not with friends, but at home with you, then the desire for him is to create his strong family.