Sometimes it seems that the case you do are not at all what they dreamed about, and life passes according to the rules, somehow imposed on. You are so unhappy that come to the conclusion - life failed. Instead of conflicting with himself, slowly drive yourself into the state of depression, it is worth an effort and transform your life to fill it with happiness. Everyone comes to success by its own way, but there are several general rules.
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In the literature on the secrets of the subconscious, they write that thoughts have a property to materialize. Analyze what you thought of lately, and you will realize that it really is. Try to program yourself on a positive way, do not focus on the negative, do not scroll into memory memories of unpleasant moments. Remember, the circumstances in which you turned out to be created by your thinking. Therefore, if you strive to change everything for the better, put yourself a specific goal. Go ahead, wisely by sending your thoughts. Assist you in mastering this rule the advice of psychologists. I still read Louise Hay "Heal your life" and other bestsellers, Tatyana Stark "Clean the right - you live well." They will inspire you and support when difficult.
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No matter how much you wanted good change, only a little positive thinking. Need actions aimed at making a dream. Make them interfere with laziness and fear of change. Of course, it is easier to just reflect on how you would be happy, reaching the desired, but by itself will not appear. Do not let you lend you. Throwing the fear, make real actions, even if they are mistaken, because they say not in vain: "It is better to do and regret what to regret that I did nothing." And what are you afraid? Is it scary to lose your usual mistake? But he did not suit you. Because of this, you decided to change it.
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Do not affect others. Choose your goals and ways to achieve them yourself. Be the director of your destiny and realize personal responsibility for everything that happens to you now and will happen in the future. So you will become a free person.
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To solve the task, notice the specific steps, for example, start doing charging, throw out old things, sit on a diet, etc. If radical changes are needed, it may have to change or move to another place. Make them without postponing for the future. Once shelling fulfillment, you risk to fault your own plan. At first it is not easy, but then you will act "on autopilot." If every day your life will change at least a little bit, you are progressive and your goal is getting closer.
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Do not run forward, habitually asking yourself questions: "And if suddenly ...", "And what will happen if ...". All this interferes, generates doubts, slows down. Distant to such moods, you will stand in place in return to exercise conceived. You will tease the internal conflict. He will not give you to stay in harmony with himself and the environment. And this is a prerequisite for peace of mind. It is better to focus on purpose, send all your strength to the incarnation of the tasks set. Clear fulfillment of them, even in trifles, will trust you for success.
Summing up, I want to say: believe everyone. If you do not just dream of a better life, and also take steps in this direction, behave as if you are constantly winning, then the period called "Life failed" will end.
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