There is nothing wrong with wanting to become popular. Not every girl dares to say so openly, but nevertheless, receive adulation and recognition of the majority of dreams. So what do I do it?
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To become popular, you must first learn to be self-confident:
If all of a sudden turned out to be a good time to show their "I" - do not stand on the sidelines and act! If you do not believe in yourself, no one will believe. Drop complexes aside and open themselves real.
Do not be afraid to talk when you have something to say. Do not be silent, do not create an image of a gray mouse. You know a lot of jokes and funny stories - well, share them with others. I enjoy reading and can lead to a conversation or debate some interesting facts - go for it! People interested in you.
Develop your skills and expand your range of interests. Learn how to do something better than others, so you have no equal among your surroundings. This will give you even more confidence and you will more easily be able to stay in the community.
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Expand the circle of acquaintances. Use of all the available methods - make new friends at work (or school), in gyms and dance clubs, on the Internet in the end. Do not be afraid to start a conversation first, do not be afraid to invite a new friend to the cinema or to the park for a walk. The more people learn about you and love you as a person - the sooner you will gain popularity.
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Try to stand out from the crowd. Make a new hairstyle, learn how to apply makeup, get your own style. And remember, to become visible - not necessarily to be fashionable. The main thing to emphasize a personality and feel comfortable at the same time. If you would like the way you look, believe me - around feel the same.
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You will not be popular, if not get rid of their fears and complexes. You do not want to go to a party, because there will be a few of your old friends - to collect the courage to go to start a new. Feel free to dance and have fun, be positive and to attract attention. First, it will be terrible and strange, and then you will start to like itself to be socially active.
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Popular people are friends with everyone. You need to learn to communicate not only with their peers, but also with people older and younger people in leadership positions, with the sellers in the store and grandmothers on the benches. Be friendly and unobtrusive, try to help people as possible, and most importantly - do it all from the heart. When she tries to please everyone and literally squeezes a smile - believe me, it is very noticeable from the outside.
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Do not be afraid to laugh at their misfortunes. All of us are not perfect, and if you make some mistake - do not turn in on themselves and do not wait until everything will be forgotten. Do not forget! That after a time you will not have to blush for said or done today - do not hesitate to make fun of yourself for yourself.
Most importantly, what you should remember - in any situation to remain themselves. When a man from the skin of bending over backwards to get into the new company and bend under others in an effort to rise to a new social level - the result is often sad. Society likes to open and natural persons, who do not hide their own emotions under false masks. So try not to lose your "I" in the pursuit of popularity.
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