Often there are such cases when falling in love by ears, a woman discovers that her beloved has long been married and is not going to change anything in life. Lawless Heart. What to do if a man is busy?
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In someone else's grief of your happiness will never build. Woman will not be happy with a man who broke the life of ex-wife and children. You can try to fight, achieve decisive steps from him, but here there is no guarantee that at one time he will not reach the second time.
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If the girl is still in love with a non-free person, you need to look in myself the problem. Why is it attracted by the inaccessibility of a man? And is it drawn to him because of some personal qualities or because of the rings on the finger? Usually such relations are the most complex, because someone's feelings will definitely suffer. If a woman knows initially that she is waiting for, and still chooses to get involved in this situation, maybe she wants to punish herself for something. Possible causes over which it is time to think:
low self-esteem,
fear of loneliness
an example of parental relationships
the desire to be unhappy.
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Without aware of the fact that the problem exists, work on it is a woman and then will choose "not those". If the relationship with his wife does not want to make a man, you need to try to break it out. After all, it hurts not only mistress, but also a legitimate spouse. No matter how hard it was, but it is worth thinking about the woman on which he married. With the mistress, a man will behave dusty and gently, and with his wife he will show all his herself. The spouse clearly feel that something is wrong happened. Gifts, tenderness, romance will end. He secret will call the mistress, constantly deceiving his native man. The man understands perfectly well what causes the huge pain of the former beloved, with whom he tied his life, and now he can not let go, enjoying it honestly.
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The second step towards solving the problem is to think about the future. What awaits a mistress in a couple of days, month, year? The picture is not too joyful. Critical only a few first months after dating a new woman. Then he can still tell his wife about the situation and divorce. If this did not happen, he will never go for it.
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Less than 8% of men take mistress's wife. He will not change anything just because everything suits him. He has a mistress for mercy and a wife who will feed and patronize him. What awaits these women? One will be engaged in self-deception, arguing that her husband doesn't have anyone, and the second will find it, life will not change, all the most important points will remain behind. If you break a closed triangle, then a suitable person will surely meet, ready for a serious relationship without lies. Is it possible to trust the one who has changed his wife again?
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A new step towards indifference is to behave with a person just like his legitimate wife. You can call him often, jealous, interested in his plans for the evening. Any girl is worthy of a human relationship. Why should he receive only a man? After the behavior of the mistress changes, a man will noticeably begin to cool down to her.
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It's time to realize what a married guy uses an unfortunate girl for mercenary purposes. He enjoys her beauty, her age, her life. And how often did he call at the last moment and canceled all the plans? Such situations will not be isolated. The mistress is destined to hold holidays in the proud loneliness or parents of parents. After all, most girlfriends will already be married. A man in his own pleasure encourages everyone in the district for deception, suffering, flour conscience, constant mental pain. After the decision to part is accepted, it is impossible to change the mind, no matter how hurts it. The last step will be blocking its number, erasing all posts. You have to throw all gifts.
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It's time to remember what the woman could be interested in what she was sacrificed for the sake of meetings with the former beloved. It is necessary to sort out yourself, start seeing other people, more often appear on interesting events, go to concerts, discos.
No matter how much the man gets back to him, you need to pick up the chin up and proudly continue to go to your own way. He will definitely lead to something more worthy and true.