Now we all spend a lot of time on social networks. The most popular resource in contact with the Russian-language audience, which provides a lot of opportunities to make a useful acquaintance or maintain relationships. Nevertheless, the topic to communicate with the girl you like is not easy. In this article we will look at what you can talk to a girl in VK.
Find common interests
Social networks provide a lot of opportunities for productive communication. From the profile of the girl you can learn a lot about it and find common topics for conversation. If you want to place an interlocutor to yourself, start a conversation with interesting things for it: you can talk about hobbies and places of recreation, and you can discuss her comments or posts.
Before you begin communication, carefully examine the girl's profile. There you can use the following information:
- List of favorite musical groups, movies and books. These are very convenient to discuss the topic: you do not need to love the same thing, but if you just looked at the movie or read the work, an interesting conversation can be told.
- Count of activity and interest in the questionnaire can also be useful if it is filled correctly. If the information is practically absent there, you will have to navigate other sources.
- The list of communities and publics can also tell you a lot about a person. If this list is not hidden, you will learn what is interested in the girl, what media reads and where it loves to go on weekends - all this information can give a lot of those for an unobtrusive conversation.
- Photos and posts that publishes a girl can also be useful to you to start dialogue. Look at the photos to find out where the girl happens and how to spend your free time. If she writes deployed posts, they should be read - such attention will always be pleasant.
If you are not interested in the same thing as the girl, you should not pretend that you understand the topic - the deception will still be revealed sooner or later. Instead, try to sincerely ask what she is interested in, and ask more questions.
Talk to neutral topics
The themes concerning the personally of the girl and their interests will always be more winning than talking about anything. However, if you have the meaningful ideas for conversation, you can maintain contact with the help of neutral topics. These include:
- events in your city
- food preferences
- relationships with friends and relatives
- pets
- sport
- trips
If you choose neutral themes, try to use less common phrases in communication. Try to express your personality and look at the subject of discussion at an unusual angle. At the same time, do not be too categorical and do not try to argue with the girl directly. Avoid acute to which policies, religion, sex and financial matters can relate.
Share personal stories
If you want to tie a closer relationship with a girl, in addition to common interests and neutral topics, it is possible to discuss the views on life and history from personal experience. Do not expect a girl to be ready to share with you thoughts and experiences from the very first messages - for such topics it is worth knowing each other better.
If you want communication to become closer and sincere, show the initiative: tell you an interesting story from your life, which reflects your views on the world or on relationships, your values \u200b\u200bor your doubts and fears. Such stories can best give an idea of \u200b\u200ba person. If you begin to open and share something intimate even at the correspondence stage, perhaps the girl will also want to share personal stories. This will translate your communication to a different level.
Communicate in VK even after a personal acquaintance
Social networks are now used not only for dating, but also to maintain existing contacts. If you meet a girl, but you do not have the opportunity to see how often I would like to communicate in VK can help you maintain contact every day. However, not all themes are suitable for online communication. The following topics for conversations will be most successful:
- events taking place with you during the day
- plans for the evening, on weekends or vacation
- domestic issues
- jokes, compliments and relaxed communication
Clarification of relationships, the topic of sex and any serious conversations are better to leave for personal communication. In the correspondence, it is best to keep pleasant and not too informative conversations or solve small domestic issues.
Communication in VK cannot replace personal communication, but in the correspondence it is quite possible to start an interesting acquaintance and maintain communication. Take into account that the correspondence does not transmit intonation and non-verbal signals, so sharp topics are better to postpone the personal meeting. At the same time, in communication online it is quite possible to interest the interlocutor, to find common interests and understand whether you want to continue to communicate live.
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