How to interest a girl in correspondence

How to interest a girl in correspondence

Many guys are just beginning to make the first attempts to communicate with the girls. And if you come to get acquainted at school, transport, on the street and elsewhere like this, without preparation, it is very difficult, then you can first start with virtual communication. Just how to interest the girl by correspondence?

Guys, be prepared for the fact that not every girl wants to communicate with you in social networks, but if you have the only one for which you are ready for everything, it's time to start acting.



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How to interest a girl in correspondence

It is necessary to write something special, something that the girl is interested in and she was ready to communicate with you:

  • The ability to "conversation" or corresponding correctly. Everything will depend not only on mutual interest, but also from your "oratorical" abilities. The rule is first and very important: from the first proposals in the correspondence, the level of your literacy becomes clear. Almost all girls are very negative about illiterate guys. Even if the guy is charming, writes interesting and fascinating, then mistakes in words are very annoying. Therefore, learn to write competently, check yourself several times before sending a message.
  • If you are interested in this person, then the girl will feel even at a distance. The active correspondence does not mean that it is necessary to write in the morning, at lunch, day and even at night. Believe me, such marks are tedious. Just need to understand how often it is to write, so as not to lose the same thread of communication.
  • Virtual observations in social networks - be sure to study the page of the girl in social networks to understand what she is interested in what the music is listening to what kind of films do she like. Photos also can also be understood what way of life your beauty is leading. And even by quotes and statements on the wall - draw conclusions regarding the mood of the girl.
  • Integet not only to the virtual life of the interlocutor, but also its real. Ask her about plans for the future, share your own. During the conversation, you will definitely find common topics for communication.
  • Breasting, of course, indecently, but sometimes even useful. Tell us gently about your abilities. So that it surprised her. You can start with simple questions, ask what she likes that she can do and what is interested. If he was fascinated by photography and you too fond of this case, just find a common topic for conversation.
  • Unpredictability, surprise - also contributes to the nature of virtual communication. These are not banal phrases as "Good morning, my princess," will surprise your interlocutor. Your task is not to seem funny, and surprise and prove that you are the only and unique, among thousands of other guys.
  • The first phase should be unique and unusual. Open question is a great start of correspondence. For example: "What do you need a person for happiness?", "What should I do if there is no bear on the planet?" (or plants, anything). It is important not to ask about something personally, but to know the opinion of the interlocutor. If you ask trite: "What are you doing now?" The girl will surely not want to tell what it does (he accepted the souls, made pedicure, epilation). About this she is certainly gradually to tell and most likely, he does not want to continue the conversation. But on the abstract topics - it will be talked.
  • No template questions, like: "Where are you?", "Hi, what are you doing?", "Hello, how are you?" Come up with something original to surprise the interlocutor.
  • The correspondence should not be a hint of your mood (if it is not very). No complaints and reproaches, always be on a positive!

Do not impose your opinion a girl and no obscene vocabulary!

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