Scientists argue that for a one-year-old baby sleep with parents is only good. However, with the onset of one and a half or two years old, the so-called squeezing is simply necessary, otherwise the risk of unacceptability of a child in the future, excessive dependence on others. Changing the spotlight - stress for the whole family, so make sure that all three are ready for this step.
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We start with day sleep. The child should realize that the new place is quite cozy and safe, Mom is still near. Waking up in his crib, baby gets used to a new location and worries significantly less. Over time, it is fully adapted, but only half of the case is made.
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The main problem is night sleep - solved with the help of a favorite soft toy or a similar object. We put the plush beast among yourself and the tea, thereby creating a small obstacle. That is, you sleep with a row, but there is no bodily contact as such.
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After successful attempts to our experiment, lay the child along with a toy in the children's bed, closely shifted to adult. The distance between you increases, but it remains to hug a baby if he woke up.
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When a frequent need for mother's presence in a child is dulled, it's time to move the bed. First, a little, then - on the meter ... As a result, a small bed should move at a convenient place for you or to a neighboring room.
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And so it happened: the baby fell asleep right where you need to. However, the work is not finished yet, because, most likely, baby will come to you in the night. Until he gets used to the change, afraid of the dark or being alone. And he needs help to cope with feelings, but without departing from the selected behaviors. Calmly say, comforts, embrace, and recovered in a crib. Next time, do not talk, just bid farewell to his seat. I look forward to a dozen similar upgrades for one night. The main task - not to get irritated, patience and perseverance. The first, second, even a third of the night can take place in such a rhythm, but very soon a children's dream will become a deep and long-lasting.
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Significantly the very bed in which you are planning to relocate crumb. It should be user-friendly and attractive to all the time wanted him to find himself. Purchase colorful bedding, hang beads, sat inside the toys. Create a small celebration, house warming, which in the mind of the child will emphasize all the advantages of a single dream. Do not forget the evening ritual preparing for prolonged rest: bathing, dressing pajamas, tale, off the main light source. Explain the son or daughter of that came the night to go, citing numerous examples, using the familiar "Sveta had already gone to bed, and your friend Dima lay down, and the dog fell asleep for a long time ...".
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There are several reasons because of which the weaning of co-sleeping should be postponed:
general malaise of the child;
teething;
weaning;
adaptation in kindergarten.
Very important time to shift the baby in your bed. Resettlement after 2.5-3 years fraught with improper emotional development and the possible psychological problems. When a child is actively manifests himself, he is ready to sleep separately. And he will do it, realizing that the parents stand firm on his own.
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