Wedding is a great sacrament, a huge step for a married couple, in which the Union of Two Lovers is blessed. Many couples are crowned immediately after marriage, others have been checking their own feelings over the years. Sometimes, couples spend the rite after the birth of the first child.
What is needed for wedding?
In order to make this rite, it is worth being confident in his choice and refers to the sacrament with great responsibility. The intentions of people who are going to bless their relationship should be firm and sincere.
Before proceeding with the rite, the newlyweds must register their marriage in the registry office, to receive a blessing from their parents, confess and coming up. It is worth remembering that the communion needs to be performed in the nearest liturgy, and it must be prepared. For a whole week before the communion, you need to fast, do not eat in food the food of animal origin. And if the week before communion is a week, then on Wednesday and Friday you need to keep a strict post, only bread and water (dry days).
Before coming, it is important to clear your mind from bad thoughts and doubt, before the procedure it is necessary to confess. If the newlyweds are wary after the marriage ceremony, they remain in their wedding outfits, a woman on a head or handkerchief or a veil. If wedding is another day, it is important that the wife is dressed in a skirt or dress, and there was a handkerchief on his head. Men enter the church without a headdress.
For the ceremony, you will need:
- 2 icons of the Savior and the Virgin. In the future, the steam can use them to initiate the dwelling, as well as icons should hang in the room where newlyweds are sleeping in the face. Also, use icons for the baptism of children
- The canvas on which young people will stand. Best suitable bride embroidered bride
- Wax wedding candles
- White handkerchiefs for candles
- Be sure to be a native crosses, both in young and witnesses
- Wedding rings
- Marriage certificate
In what cases wedding is not carried out?
It is very important to remember that the rite of wedding is impossible if the husband and wife are related, one of them was wives more than 3 times, and also, if one of the spouses is not baptized at the time of weddings. Sometimes it is allowed to marry young even if one of them is not Orthodox, but with the condition that their children will be baptized in the Orthodox faith.
- The age of the young is also important, a girl is at least 16, and a man is not less than 18. True, the church makes exceptions if the girl expects a child. After all, children should be born in a married couple.
- Despite the fact that the church does not welcome repeated marriages, the second time is still allowed. But at the same time, 2 more prayers for forgiveness and repentance are added to the usual rite.
- You can get married for the third time if one of the pair of widowed or terminated marriage for church rules.
Wedding is not held:
- During posts
- Tuesday, Thursday and Saturday
- In an easter week
- In the period from Christmas to baptism
- During the period of Maslenitsa
Rings are suitable as silver and gold. More often use the latter. Gold symbolizes the sun, and silver - moon. On the sacrament wedding is worth asking for a blessing not only from parents, but also in a spiritual person. It is worth making marriage.
It is worth choosing a cloth for a wedding with the meaning that at the beginning of the ceremony, the father tying hands with young, and from the rest of the rushnik knits knots that denote the future offspring. How many knots - so many children will have this married couple. It is important to choose a church where the rite will be held, the temple is better suitable for which at least one of the couple went from childhood. Preferably in the same church, baptize children.
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