The death of a loved one is grief and mental pain for relatives. According to Christian religion, the fortieth day is the most important. At this time, the soul leaves the Earth completely and falls on the court of God, where her further fate is solved. Help the soul of a loved one to find peace on the light of commemoration and sincere prayers.
How to remember 40 days after death - visit the grave
On a fortieth day, go to the grave to the deceased person to say goodbye to him. This is a mandatory part of the commemorating ritual. Rules for visiting cemeteries:
- remove the wreaths assigned to the grave after the funeral. Burn or take into a garbage container;
- put the pair of colors on the grave;
- burn a candle or lamp;
- pray for the soul of the deceased, then silence and remember all the good moments from his life.
You can not arrange in the 40th day in a graveyard with alcohol and noisy conversations. Remember dinner, organize at home or in a cafe. Do not put a glass with vodka on the grave and do not pour alcohol there. Candy with cookies often put on the grave. This is a voluntary thing, but it is best to replace the sweets of a plate of kuuti, which leave near the grave. Candy cookies distribute those present in the cemetery and beggar. Do not arrange noisy conversations, everything must pass calmly and more complex.
How to remember 40 days after death - visiting the temple
For a fortieth, be sure to go to church and order a memorial. This is the best help of the soul of the deceased relative. Please note that Panhid is ordered only for a deceased person who was baptized. Rules of commemoration in the church:
- prepare home products that you put in the temple on a memorial table. This is alms in honor of the deceased. From products you can incur cookies, candies, flour, sugar and various cereals, fruits, vegetable oil and red wine. Do not try to carry sausages and other meat products;
- write the name of the deceased in the note "about the rest." Notes are issued in church shop. Under his name, write the names of other deceased baptized relatives and acquaintances;
- give a note to the church shop;
- put a candle for the late. At the time of its installation, pray for it and ask the Lord to forgive all his sins;
- do not leave the temple when the father serves a memorial service. Stand with a candle until it is over, and soul pray for a deceased relative.
You can order a panocurity to the cemetery. Discuss in advance in the temple with the priest when it will be held. Well, if after the funeral you will immediately order in the church Sorokoust. For the deceased will pray from the date of his death to the fortieth day.
How to remember 40 days after death - a memorial lunch
The purpose of the memorial lunch for the 40th day is the memory of the deceased person and prayer for his rest. Call all the people who were deceived by the roads. Do not strive to prepare a lot of delicacies. Prefer simple dishes. On the memorial dinner it is forbidden to sing songs, having fun and consume a lot of alcohol. Vodka is inappropriate here, put light wine on the table. Rules for the organization of memorial lunch:
- organize a comment on the 40th day of the house or in a cafe;
- be sure to place on the table with rice or millet, pancakes and eve - Small cookies, topped with honey;
- prepare patties with different stuffing;
- include fish dishes in the menu, noodles soup, stuffed pepper, cutlets, goulash, Olivier salad or a herd "under a fur coat", as well as different salads from vegetables. In the cafe you will be offered a memorial menu;
- before you start dinner, read the prayer "Our Father".
The main thing in the commemoration is not a discussion of the deceased and other people at the table, but the union of those people who can remember the deceased person with a good word.
How to remember 40 days after death - what to distribute people
On the 40th day, distribute candy people, cookies and piers to remember the deceased. Bear things of the deceased and distribute to those in need. Ask them to pray for the soul of the deceased. This is your personal business, you can leave things that you are roads. If not the necessary things remained anyone - take into the temple, they will give them back. But, in no case, do not throw anything.
Do not forget about the dead and then, pray for them, put candles in the temple for rest, show mercy to the near, remove the grave. The good memory of the man in the other world will remain in your heart forever.
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