Some time after the magnificent celebration, some spouses with surprise and disappointment discover that the feelings are somewhat gramed. And perhaps, love was not at all, and there was only Euphoria, passion and desire to marry. Maybe the partner has become annoying you, you feel the desire to escape somewhere, start a new life and every time we darreled yourself, lies with him in bed? Or are you just indifferent to it? Then this article is for you. Try to return the former feelings and see your husband with other eyes.
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First of all, to start something to do, you should feel the desire to work on relationships and change something for the better. In other words, something in your relationship should remain something that makes you stay for each other - friendship, heat, attachment. Otherwise, perhaps you really should not torment each other and continue painful and hated relationships.
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Women's psychology is arranged so that we love men for how they treat us. We love yourself and love very much when others do it. But besides this, there must be respect, trust and sincerity. Perhaps these are the main factors that are very easy to build love. Let your husband love yourself, remind him as he behaved before the wedding. Tell him directly, what you lack in the relationship and what actions you are waiting for him. Do not silent, perhaps the spouse does not recognize that your relationship is on the verge of break.
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Remember everything was. Reflexing, refresh in memory all pleasant moments and those qualities for which you once chose exactly this person to go hand in hand with him all your life.
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More soft and tactile contact. Kiss her husband, accompanying him to work, and meeting, hug it as if you have not seen each other a couple of years, hold his hand or go with him hand in hand, walking, watching each other's eyes. All these feelings are very important out of bed, it should become a habit, and after a while you feel that all you need, like air.
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Love - it's hormones surge of feelings, physics and chemistry. At the very beginning of the relationship the level of these hormones is so high because of the newness of the relationship, because of the unrest experienced and because of something else, of which so eager to fly. In family life, the novelty and intrigue relationship erased, everything becomes predictable and boring. So where will the hormones? Diversify their joint family life a little adventure. Go to cafes and restaurants, paintball and bowling, to go on a trip or go hiking, arrange a candlelit dinner or a jerk to the river to meet the dawn. Be unpredictable and different for each other, and in bed too. Do not let the feeling turn into a habit.
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Spend at least one day per week to each other, seek common ground and common interests. Joint activities strengthens the relationship.
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Keep conversation. Use SMS messages or communication networks, and perhaps the letter in the mail. It helps to look at a new husband. After all, sometimes it is easier to write than to say out loud. Ask him about his feelings, tell your.
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Perhaps the matter with you? Can you become not so confident or lost romance share and do not notice the little things of which life is built? Revise his views on things, and maybe the world will shine for you with new colors.
In any case worth a try, you always have time to get a divorce. Breaking easier than to build. A relationship - it is work, and work here should both. If you succeed, the reward will you family happiness, love and prosperity. Your work is worth it after all?
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