The foundations are crumbling marriage modern society. Statistics say that every year becomes more and more divorces. If the Soviet Union was considered shameful to terminate the case, but now it is commonplace. Despite this, the separation hurts partners. Release the old life and start a new not so easy, but it is feasible.
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Heartache at divorce is natural, do not try to seem indifferent and independent. Psychologists say that the sharp feelings last for a maximum of a month, the rest of it a habit to feel negative emotions. Within 6 months, people adapt to a new life, and a year later there comes a complete peace of mind and serenity. Surviving divorce from her husband to help acceptance of the situation. Everything went well and not otherwise. Do not think about the past, about what actions would you have changed. And most importantly - let go of the guilt that destroyed the family. This will help you dating and chat with friends in misfortune:
enroll in an anonymous circle at the center of the psychological type of "ex-wives club";
sign up for online forums divorce;
refer to a professional psychologist.
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For the first time more often with friends, try speaking resentment, lament. Write on a piece of paper on his regrets and burn it. Go out, visit the city's best restaurant. And for this purchase beautiful and expensive dress for the family budget has a high price. But remember, communicating with friends and family, do not abuse alcohol, do not try drugs. Now is an excellent time to transform itself. Take care of your appearance and health. Go to a beauty salon to improve the relief body, and along with self-esteem, helps mesotherapy or wrap. In the office of a dentist bleach your teeth.
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To survive a divorce with her husband, start to build a career plan, love, holiday. Create a wall newspaper "My dreams and my future." Paste on Whatman paper photos and sign them. Hang your creation in a room where you spend time frequently. Celebrate successes tick. When the period of emotional heat has passed, find for yourself something for everyone, that you will begin to inspire. Perfectly suited dance, sports, painting, or get your hands on the game on a musical instrument. Great trip - and you will feel the taste of life. If the funds are not enough to rest abroad, pay attention to local attractions. It is possible that you have in your district have a beautiful lake or mountain impregnable.
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Insults bring soul only discomfort. If possible, stay on friendly terms with the ex-spouse. However, for the first time, limit contact with him, his family and friends. It is easy to part with all that is reminiscent of the former. Give those in need of his favorite couch or computer. Remove all photos together. And only when you feel that the reminder to not cause palpitations of the heart, feel free to go to the contact. Heavier, if there is joint children. You have to deal with a former spouse. Pre-prepared for the disagreeable encounter. Think about the beautiful and whenever you want to say something biting, count to 10. Do not draw the children into a quarrel, for them he will always be my father.
Few managed to survive the divorce from her husband quickly and easily. Drawing lessons from this negative experience. Remember that in front of a new life and a new dawn.
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I want to also share their experiences. I am 30 years of marriage, have a child 4 years. I decide to divorce 2 years. Being married last 2 years my husband and I did not live together. To say that I had a hard-to say nothing ... I was left alone with the 2-year-old child: no work, no financial support from her husband, nor participate in the upbringing of the child ... I prematurely withdrew from maternity leave, paid child in the garden, but after 10 months successfully quit because tolerate an employee who goes to the hospital every month for child care no one wanted. We were interrupted by my jobs at home: through the sale, the Internet, hand-made, and so on. Divorce officially afraid because thought, suddenly her husband change his mind, come back ... In general, how much I have read the articles hanging on "abandoned wives" forums, trying to keep-my life active it did not help, I felt that in all these I start properly educate his son ... I knew that I need a man to me and my child ... There was a time when I was hanging at night on dating sites, hoping to meet the "decent", but realized that I even go on a date I can not, because no one to leave the kid ... And now, I'm 29 years old took a firm decision, that men do not need me, the material life of our stabilized, the child grew up, stopped hurting, I found a job, like all good, even managed to sometimes run out on dates ... but divorce is still not solved, there were always excuses: the application once to write, time to go to court, the money for legal costs sorry, and so-forth. One friend advised me a long time to go to a psychologist, I ignored this advice, because thought that the most difficult thing I've experienced. But I confess that I began to frighten 2 things: I am 30 years old do not want to let into their lives of men and the fact that my son began to behave like a girl (say, I ate, I was walking, and so on, sitting to go to the toilet. take my makeup). In short, rather due to my son I decided to turn to the psychologist, the more he tried, both in the office and on Skype, I was as lonely mother who does not entrust his son who was a very convenient. I will not be long to describe everything he told me, but to be honest my hair moved on the head when he voiced my thoughts, that I was afraid to admit ... The result of our therapy: I got rid of emotional dependence on her ex-husband successfully filed for divorce and after 3 months, met a man who loved me and my son, he became a worthy example. Now we are together for almost a year, we live together, we plan to formalize our relationship ... The most important thing is that I realized that the divorce life does not end, it's a chance to build new relationships and have a full life!
I will not long and diligently paint my emotions and words of gratitude, I just want to advise a good master and assistant, the blinds are the same as I was - those who need help. He turned to Irina and remained very pleased. Really professional !!! explained that and why it happens in my life, that this can be done and helped it corrected, for which I am very grateful. Words are not in the case, she does not say a pleasant, friendly man. I write to Irina vatsap (eight nine one two six four zero two seven-thirty-nine). It is better not to call and write. For consultation, I paid only 2000 rubles! Irina never refuses help.
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I want to also share their experiences. I am 30 years of marriage, have a child 4 years. I decide to divorce 2 years. Being married last 2 years my husband and I did not live together. To say that I had a hard-to say nothing ... I was left alone with the 2-year-old child: no work, no financial support from her husband, nor participate in the upbringing of the child ... I prematurely withdrew from maternity leave, paid child in the garden, but after 10 months successfully quit because tolerate an employee who goes to the hospital every month for child care no one wanted. We were interrupted by my jobs at home: through the sale, the Internet, hand-made, and so on. Divorce officially afraid because thought, suddenly her husband change his mind, come back ... In general, how much I have read the articles hanging on "abandoned wives" forums, trying to keep-my life active it did not help, I felt that in all these I start properly educate his son ... I knew that I need a man to me and my child ... There was a time when I was hanging at night on dating sites, hoping to meet the "decent", but realized that I even go on a date I can not, because no one to leave the kid ... And now, I'm 29 years old took a firm decision, that men do not need me, the material life of our stabilized, the child grew up, stopped hurting, I found a job, like all good, even managed to sometimes run out on dates ... but divorce is still not solved, there were always excuses: the application once to write, time to go to court, the money for legal costs sorry, and so-forth. One friend advised me a long time to go to a psychologist, I ignored this advice, because thought that the most difficult thing I've experienced. But I confess that I began to frighten 2 things: I am 30 years old do not want to let into their lives of men and the fact that my son began to behave like a girl (say, I ate, I was walking, and so on, sitting to go to the toilet. take my makeup). In short, rather due to my son I decided to turn to the psychologist, the more he tried, both in the office and on Skype, I was as lonely mother who does not entrust his son who was a very convenient. I will not be long to describe everything he told me, but to be honest my hair moved on the head when he voiced my thoughts, that I was afraid to admit ... The result of our therapy: I got rid of emotional dependence on her ex-husband successfully filed for divorce and after 3 months, met a man who loved me and my son, he became a worthy example. Now we are together for almost a year, we live together, we plan to formalize our relationship ... The most important thing is that I realized that the divorce life does not end, it's a chance to build new relationships and have a full life!
I will not long and diligently paint my emotions and words of gratitude, I just want to advise a good master and assistant, the blinds are the same as I was - those who need help. He turned to Irina and remained very pleased. Really professional !!! explained that and why it happens in my life, that this can be done and helped it corrected, for which I am very grateful. Words are not in the case, she does not say a pleasant, friendly man. I write to Irina vatsap (eight nine one two six four zero two seven-thirty-nine). It is better not to call and write. For consultation, I paid only 2000 rubles! Irina never refuses help.