Much to our regret, life is not only a range of pleasant and fun events, apart from that in life everyone will face serious problems, trouble and sorrow. One of the most painful moments in the life of every person close loss. At such moments, it seems that life has stopped you and you just can not imagine how you can continue to breathe without this person. Let's now talk about what to do and what to think, when a loved one died.
Death of a close - tragedy
It is clear that when a person takes the life of someone is always going to be a tragedy. When we look at the summary of the last few days and we hear that somewhere killing a certain number of people, we perceive such data as the statistics - the numbers you hear and forget. But when it happens that the life of a loved one goes away, it's the apocalypse and it seems to us that live on makes no sense.
A lot of horror and darkness catches up with the word "death." It should be noted that it is the pronunciation of the word horrifies many catches and thoughts of despair. In Christianity, believers replace the word in the sense of other similar, but not as frightening to hear. These words include "Repose" and "uspevanie" agree that they sound more relaxed and calming.
In fact, when a person dies, we do not think once about what it is now, we immediately begin to think about how we will live without it, as we will be hard.
The essence of death in Christianity
It should be understood that death, in fact, is a man's transition from one world to another, and his funeral is a kind of wires to another world. If we consider these theses and definitions from the side, all this is clear by 100% and we all understand it, but when the trouble happens to you, a close person dies, this understanding disappears somewhere and remains on the shower, sorrow, sadness and the mass of others The most unpleasant sensations within us.
The man who lost his loved one should think about that his body will not leave with us, but mentally it remains with us, and as the priests say - "the person is alive until he remembers about him."
Some Christians do not know how to behave and what to do when there is such an event in their lives. You do not need to worry and ask for your neighbors about it, just go to any church. Temple and ask all the questions you are interested in at the clergyman, who will tell you in detail and explain if necessary. It should be understood that these people will be able to convey information to you so that you understand it and realize.
Relatives of the deceased will have to take care of everything and immediately. It is clear that the funeral process is not so complicated as their organization, and it will be best if you do all this process yourself, so that everything goes according to plan, and it was as you wanted exactly. It is worth immediately reporting that the process in question is called simple cannot be called, it will be difficult in all the senses of this word, both morally and physically.
Farewell process
A person died, this fact will need to accept how difficult it would not be for you:
- First you need to wash the deceased and dress it (this mission needs to be entrusted with a friend or ask for people who are engaged in this professionally).
- Sit a little next to the body, look at him and remember all my life next to him. It is necessary to remember everything is good and positive, which happened in your life with him. Please accept the fact that this person is no longer with you (in the bodily sense of the word). He will not speak with you and will not hurt, take it and accept this fact. To make it easier for you, take the psalter about the rest, and read it out loud, slowly, disassembling and understanding each phrase.
- Your task as a Christian is to order in the nearest church of the funeral of the deceased. At the moment, the process under review is usually either in the house of the deceased or already in the cemetery. The ideal option would be to bring the deceased in the church and there to hold this rite.
- The coffin must be the most common, inexpensive, because too chic and the expensive coffin will look like the redemption of the guilt of relatives before the departed. It is not worth doing this if you want to make as much as possible for the deceased, then you will need to file alms to those in need, also to submit on the temple. Only such good things can help you apologize to the departed and calm him soul.
- Kernight the newly attached is necessary for all Christian canons and customs. If you do not know them or confused what, again, ask the clergy, who will be happy to tell you with pleasure, will show and explain.
- It happens that the deceased is to be operatively burying without holding the funeral procession, you do not need to be upset and disappointed. It will be necessary to just come to the temple and talk to the priest who will tell, as in this case, to be and correctly spend a special package about this.
The body should be embodied by land, no cremation in this case should be if the deceased was a Christian and believed in God.
The death of a loved one is a very heavy burden, which will be easy over time, and then it will be a small coin in your soul that you, and feel you will not, but she will always be with you and you will remember her. Unfortunately, in the course of life, especially if a person lives for a long time, he will accumulate a lot of such coins, nothing can be done about it, because it is life - someone comes, and someone must leave.
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