In the modern world, the once terrible word "divorce" sounds increasingly and perceived much easier. This is not an exception to the rules. Relationships from steam do not add up for one reason or another, however, they suffer from it to a greater degree of joint children. There were often cases when the Father for any reasons decide that the child should live with him, and not with Mom. But one of this desire, naturally, is little. To work in life, a lot of effort will be required. Moreover, both public opinion and the position of the court are almost always on the side of the mother.
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The court draws attention to several aspects when considering the case with whom the child will be accommodated. At the same time, he recognizes the equality of spouses. The characteristics of both parents from friends, acquaintances, colleagues at work, neighbors are studied. The material well-being of both the father and the mother is determined (will each of them provide a child with decent accommodation, upbringing, training, communication with peers, entertainment, etc.), the presence of own housing. Their physical health is evaluated, the amount of time that can be entirely devoted to the child. Accepted if there are other circumstances. A single factor, such as well-being, will not be able to serve as a basis for decision making.
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The court carefully assesss what kind of relationships are in a child with each of the parents, to whom it stretches more and tied. If the kid has brothers or sisters - they live with. The child's opinion is necessarily taken into account, so it is important to prove that the relationship with his father is wonderful. But it will only have a good value if the total freight has been ten years old. It is desirable that the relationship with the mother of the child is not hostile.
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There are quite a few factors in which the court will take the side of the Father and will decide in his favor. These include: negative feedback from common friends, neighbors, friends and colleagues; Stories directly a child about anger, aggression, mother's manual attribution; Facts of irresponsibility, lies, Money Mom's kid; The constant change of its place of work or its frequent absence; Data on destructive preferences, dependencies; Chronic depressiveness And attempts by suicide.
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Note approval by the court is not considered. It is necessary to take care of the reinforcement of words by material evidence (for example, certificates from narcodisciansman and from a psychologist, checks about permanent purchases of alcohol), to collect all sorts of negative characteristics, enlist the help of the district inspector and guardianship. The more witnesses will confirm the facts that the child with his father will be really better, the more chances of a positive decision.
A real loving parent will always fight to the latter for the happiness of his Chad. Do not listen to pessimism around others, then everything will definitely work out.