Words of gratitude have long been entered in everyday speech. We say "Thank you!" A friend, for calling, taxi driver or a bus driver who brought a passing, which showed the road or a colleague, which helped the elevator. But sometimes the situation requires more exquisite words than a simple "thank you!". How to express gratitude beautifully?
Watch for speech
The first and, perhaps, the most important advice - speak from the pure heart. Yes, coupling words are already a signal that this is not an ordinary phrase, which said on the machine. But if they are not sincere, it immediately rushes into the eyes and causes at least perplexity. Intonation, speed and tempo of speech are the factors that will tell, the truth you say or somewhere weed. And simply learned texts, the more harmful to the eyes.
Speak calm, confident voice. Do not shout, but do not let something under your nose. It is better to slow down the speed of speech than speak too fast; It creates some solemnity. If you are too excited, irritable or evil, then distracted from negative emotions, if you can't - transfer the conversation at another time.
Non-verbal signs
Gestures, Mimic, the movements of the hands and the position of the body - what almost always goes from the subconscious and is also subconsciously can be solved. If you are talking about how grateful to your colleague for joint work, but you yourself are considering passersby on the street, do not know where to attach hands and stand as far as possible from your interlocutor, then he will not be exactly happy.
Properly selected words
The smallest meaning has the words. They are only a small piece of information. Nevertheless, it is too beautiful to speak too. Sometimes quite ordinary "Thank you!". This concerns those cases when your emotions say more than the words themselves.
But always better add a few more offers. Check for what you thank a person and why it is so important for you. So, if you thank your spouse, for going to the store instead of you, you can say: "Thank you for helping. Without you, I would definitely have done alone. "
If just "Thank you!" It is not enough to express all your gratitude, it can be replaced by the following synonyms:
- thank you;
- i will always remember what you did for me;
- thanks to you, I did everything;
- with your help… ;
- i am very grateful for your help;
- i do not express in words how you helped me;
- i'm glad you helped me;
- without you, I would not work
- i was very pleased that you ...
Think forever, about what you would like to say a person. If necessary - write down or practice in front of the mirror. Thus, it is possible to avoid awkward moments when the appropriate word is already spinning in the language and is about to be, but it remains unspeakable.
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